T1M

Yes and no Tim. People in university are more mature, so, if you say you don't want to go, because you don't want to go... they should be able to understand. It's more about the people you hang out with. Plus, i don't know where it's been written that you must be popular and socialize. My tip is, don't guess anything before really get in there, it's pointless and might be a total waste of time. Try to enjoy the most you can, without force you to do things you don't want to. ;)