I didn't get this. But... i guess so? :lol:
You shouldn't be shy to talk to nice looking girls, because they are still humans. Also, going out to parties, i won't say it helps to go out on a date, but it sure does help you to KNOW more people, including girls.
You guys, me, and everyone here is quite young, and we tend to think we're late to much things in life... but seriously, relax, take it easy. As my mother always says (about pretty much anything) "It will be when it has to be." Don't rush things, don't pressure yourself. It will be when it has to be. And it will happen naturally.
Obviously, you won't stay in your bedroom waiting a girl to come in and say: "Please love me!". That's just idiotic... so, explore the world. You might find people you may like to hang with.
Not to mention, the biggest thinking here is... do your situation bothers you? Yes? Who is responsible to change it? Yes... you. Only you.
So, put some courage in your face and try something! Most of the time it will SURE fail, and that's completely normal!
And before you guys say that girls are cruel by not accepting and etc, you guys have no idea how many times i got "denied" by a boy. Yes, it happens with us too! :lol:
About the pool, :lol: nevermind...
That's not a 100% work method. Some guys get extremelly idiotic when they drink. so... don't be so sure about that Patch. :lol: