Girl Problems

Fear Deer · December 18, 2013

killalldude said:
Lol, this is the greatest thread title evar!

Come on, man. You should know alcohol + school = fail.

That was mostly a joke :p

But alcohol + girls = increased chance of success

Milli · December 18, 2013

Diablo said:
So the treat 'em mean ideology DOES have some merit! ;)

I didn't get this. But... i guess so? :lol:

"Mercedes-Benz said:
Yeah yeah, you just asked the girl "do you even stance bro?" and went out on a date huh.

I have serious problems talking with nice looking girls. Not that there are many nice girls where I live but I was in Prague and got a bit lost, didn't know where to go etc., so I asked a very nice girl how to get there. I could barely say a single word.

Let's do a poll. Who has not kissed a girl yet? :raisehand:

You shouldn't be shy to talk to nice looking girls, because they are still humans. Also, going out to parties, i won't say it helps to go out on a date, but it sure does help you to KNOW more people, including girls.

You guys, me, and everyone here is quite young, and we tend to think we're late to much things in life... but seriously, relax, take it easy. As my mother always says (about pretty much anything) "It will be when it has to be." Don't rush things, don't pressure yourself. It will be when it has to be. And it will happen naturally.

Obviously, you won't stay in your bedroom waiting a girl to come in and say: "Please love me!". That's just idiotic... so, explore the world. You might find people you may like to hang with.

Not to mention, the biggest thinking here is... do your situation bothers you? Yes? Who is responsible to change it? Yes... you. Only you.

So, put some courage in your face and try something! Most of the time it will SURE fail, and that's completely normal!

And before you guys say that girls are cruel by not accepting and etc, you guys have no idea how many times i got "denied" by a boy. Yes, it happens with us too! :lol:

About the pool, :lol: nevermind...

patch said:
That was mostly a joke :p
But alcohol + girls = increased chance of success

That's not a 100% work method. Some guys get extremelly idiotic when they drink. so... don't be so sure about that Patch. :lol:

Fear Deer · December 18, 2013

Ofc it's not 100% guaranteed xD

It just helps me feel free to meet new girls, which is where I get stuck :p If I'm introduced it's ok..but if I have no friends in common with a girl I want to meet, I have no idea on how to get to her without being random, toooo random.

Milli · December 18, 2013

Sometimes being tooo random isn't a problem either. Just saying.

calster17 · December 18, 2013

The way a girl looks should't be a problem, be it she looks like Pixie Lott or Rihanna. Chances are it's not the way they look, its more your shy.

I can relate to it, asking somebody I don't know something is something i absolutely dread!

Upon saying that though, if I did meet Pixie Lott i'd be nervous, when i met Matt Neil I stuttered but that was more because it was somebody famous!

Also saying use drink helps, it doesn't really. how?

Well, after a few drinks in a club, I walk up and we hit off well. This & that happens and then it's forgotten about that night, she's just some girl i danced and stuff with. Sure it was a good time, but nothing more than that.

Yes, I said something about drinks in a bad tone.

CarMadMike · December 18, 2013

Diablo said:
Being gay is so gay though. :lol:

Using the word gay as a pejorative is so gay though. :cheeky:

Gay guys are so much easier than girls, they know what they want and don't tend to hide it behind 100 questions of 'what ifs' in their head.

T1M · December 18, 2013

I don't even know what girls want to talk about.. I can barely hold a conversation with someone I'm close to, let alone some random girl. I nearly had a girlfriend a year or so ago but I blew it by being too dull I guess. :fp:

Unless I meet a girl who loves cars :hmmm:

hassan1995 · December 18, 2013

Well it's a good thing the girl I like has loads in common with me :mhmm:

I want to ask but I'm not sure if she likes me :mhmm:

Milli · December 18, 2013

T1M said:
I don't even know what girls want to talk about.. I can barely hold a conversation with someone I'm close to, let alone some random girl. I nearly had a girlfriend a year or so ago but I blew it by being too dull I guess. :fp:

Unless I meet a girl who loves cars :hmmm:

Anything works. Movies, music, and even cars. But really, anything works. :lol:

hassan1995 said:
Well it's a good thing the girl I like has loads in common with me :mhmm:
I want to ask but I'm not sure if she likes me :mhmm:

Ask then. What you have to lose? The "no" is already yours. :lol:

CarMadMike · December 18, 2013

hassan1995 said:
I want to ask but I'm not sure if she likes me :mhmm:

Only one way to find out! (well, there's more but the best way is:) Ask her! :)

If you get on with her friends you could always gauge the reaction from them and see if she's worth pursuing. If she isn't interested she's not good enough for ya, simple as :D

hassan1995 · December 18, 2013

I'm part of the friend group and pretty close with them so I suppose I could eek it out of them I mean I'm with her/them most of the time so they'd know if she has a thing.

Camel · December 18, 2013

T1M said:
I don't even know what girls want to talk about.. I can barely hold a conversation with someone I'm close to, let alone some random girl. I nearly had a girlfriend a year or so ago but I blew it by being too dull I guess. :fp:

Unless I meet a girl who loves cars :hmmm:

Girls love cars. Perhaps not talking about power and looks but being driven just a bit quickly it'll usually give them a grin or a really poorly suppressed smile.

Learn how to drive and get a nice car. Not necessarily expensive but not a rust box.

I've found the best car is a classic mini. Just saying...

Milli · December 18, 2013

That's quite true indeed. Girls like cars too!

And a cute car normally works really fine. Can it be a Mini, or a VW Beetle, the old one... or even the New Beetle.

CarMadMike · December 18, 2013

Though offering them a lift on the stunt pegs on your BMX could work if you don't have a car. :nods:

calster17 · December 18, 2013

A brand new Ferrari or Lamborghini often works too as well...purely because it shows you have a great personalty, nothing to do with the fact you can afford a high value car.

:rolleyes:

Milli · December 18, 2013

:lol:

hassan1995 · December 18, 2013

I think my Adidas hi tops will do the trick :lol:

I has no bike :(

CarMadMike · December 18, 2013

hassan1995 said:
I think my Adidas hi tops will do the trick :lol:
I has no bike :(

:lol: Offer them a piggy back then?

The Compensator · December 18, 2013

They like cars, yeah, they do. So gotta wait till I get my driving license to drive one of our bimmers to school like a boss. :cool:

Milli · December 18, 2013

Of course not. You have to start talk with them.

T1M · December 18, 2013

I know, I'll rent a Ferrari and see how many girls I can pick up! :umm:

Milli · December 18, 2013

T1M said:
I know, I'll rent a Ferrari and see how many girls I can pick up! :umm:

You'll be able to pick up a quite reasonably number of girls. Just be sure that they will like the car, not you. :lol:

calster17 · December 18, 2013

T1M said:
I know, I'll rent a Ferrari and see how many girls I can pick up! :umm:

- Rent for the weekend.

- Go to a club

- You'll leave with someone no doubt, because they think your loaded. Go to there house and do the hokey cokey & such.

- Leave quickly to drop the car off.

;)

Eudemon · December 18, 2013

\ said:
Learn how to drive and get a nice car. Not necessarily expensive but not a rust box.

This reminds me of one time when I was on the bus heading to college, there were 2 girls going to their work and this guy got on quite dour faced but he then saw the girls and went to the driver "give me a 4 weekly pass, I've just been paid handsomely today" and I kid you not, he winked at the girls when handing the money over.

Very smooth. :cool:

:oook:

Milli said:
You'll be able to pick up a quite reasonably number of girls. Just be sure that they will like the car, not you. :lol:

Wait ...have you got that backwards? :hmmm:

hassan1995 · December 18, 2013

calster17 said:
- Rent for the weekend.

- Go to a club

- You'll leave with someone no doubt, because they think your loaded. Go to there house and do the hokey cokey & such.

- Leave quickly to drop the car off.

;)